In my opinion, bullies are people who think they are big, mature and in charge, when really they are just well, a bully there is no better word for them.
There is no reason or excuse for bullying, whether it is, hitting, threatening or intimidating, maliciously teasing and taunting, name-calling, making sexual remarks, stealing or damaging belongings, encouraging others to reject or exclude someone or spreading rumours.
If you are being bullied your probably not feeling so great, you are feeling crappy everyday especially the days where you are being bullied, you feel as if there is nothing you can do about it.
Something you will realise later much later in life is that there is something you can so about being bullied.
No guys I’m not going to say “Tell an adult” I know that is what you hear from most adults in regards to being bullied although it is not a bad idea to tell an adult, in some cases not all but some, it can make the situation worse but there is no harm in trying this.
You may have convinced yourself that there is no solution that you can do nothing and you just have to suffer the bullying but you defiantly do not.
Try this, When you are next made fun of intimidated, bullied, completely ignore the person/s, I know what you are thinking, that I am absolutely crazy, but wait and hear me out.
When people bully their aim is usually to make you upset by it, if they see that it doesn’t affect you at all may soon they will back off.
Your aim should be to make sure you let them see you think they are completely pathetic and immature so laugh it off, let them see it doesn’t affect you (even if it does it is better they do not know it might make them back off) you could even laugh and tell them how pathetic they sound.
They are just the same as you they are human they feel happiness, sadness, scared everything you feel they feel and they are no better than you are.
Although if you are being physically bullied you can not defend yourself with words and ignoring and trying to fight back doesn’t make the situation and better for you, in this situation the best solution is to tell someone who can do something to put the madness to an end.
I hope no one out there is being bullied but I know that is just wishful thinking, so please if you are being bullied do something about it.
that is really good advice, i think it will be very benefical to those who do suffer from bullying at school and in other activites. Keep up the good advice, i look forward to hearing more.
ReplyDeleteThanks Katie,
ReplyDeleteI hope it helps someone out there to realise it is not something you have to put up with.
good advice hayley
ReplyDeletebest way to react to a bully is ignor it or give them a taste of their own medicine, cos in many cases bullies bully cos they are insecure about them selves and they do it to make them selves feel better and bigger
That is exactly right they are usually insecure and it is a way to make themselves feel and look bigger but really they are the opposite.
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